So just why do you recommend someone? Is it because they recommended you? Do they owe you a favor? Do you owe them? Or do you genuinely value their work ethic and skills? Whatever the case, a recommendation really needs to be honest and sincere and be for an ethical reason. Seriously, would you recommend […]
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How many times do you have to present yourself to your clients and prospects before it really sinks in who you are and what you do? some say three times, others say six times. I had a friend in the PR business tell me one time it nine times (the “novena,” my Catholic friend would
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The other day I had the opportunity to spend time with an elderly relative. The experience was humbling to say the least. But more importantly it taught me a lesson instantly. I had to listen carefully and patiently and formulate clear responses. The experience helped me understand the importance of paying attention to the one
“Mad Men” has become a part of our American Sunday night TV culture. With it came the Roger Sterling character (played to the hilt by John Slattery), the jaded agency veteran living through the 1960s with his wit intact. Roger always has the right line at the right time, so it came as no surprise
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Relationships: that connection, association or involvement with another person, business or group. You gotta have ’em in both your personal and business life, so how to you find and then build relationships? At a recent Networking Skills Workshop at the North Dallas Chamber, we covered this topic and gave some simple advice. First, there are
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The other day I was in a meeting with a client who related a story about a conversation he had had with a prospect. My client works in a industry that includes brokers fronting for others doing the actual work. His prospect wanted to see the actual plant and meet the people who would be
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Whether you are inside of a company or supporting a business from the outside as a contractor or even if you are building your network, there are three things everybody wants from you: Subject matter expertise Objectivity Bandwidth At our monthly lunch together, I traded ideas around these concepts with my mentor-consultant, J Francisco Escobar,
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We’ve all done it: said the wrong thing at the wrong time to someone we thought we knew or knew about. The point here is be careful what you to anybody as they may not be as they seem. A business associate related a story to me the other evening that got me to thinking
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We all need to have someone or several someones to bounce ideas off of. Having a team or contributors helps us gather information and make informed decisions rather than just maintaining in a vacuum. Do you have collaborators or informal advisers? My colleague, Peggy, and I meet face to face about once every two years
Any good networker, sales person or job seeker understands barriers and how to overcome them. But there is one universal stopper we all can’t always come to terms with in how we deal with them–the receptionist. This is the woman or man at the front door or at the desk in outer office of the
